EB-3 Family Life in America: A Guide for Nigerians in 2025
- Joshua Godin
- Aug 15
- 3 min read
Arriving in the United States on an EB-3 visa is a life-changing moment. For many Nigerians making the move, the new job and giving your family a new future happen at the same time, which can be stressful.
Family life in America can be exciting, but it also comes with adjustments. From understanding the school system to finding a community that feels like home, settling in takes time, patience, and a little planning. This guide will walk you through what to expect so you can help your family thrive from day one.

Finding the Right Place to Live
Choosing where to live is one of the most important decisions you’ll make. Consider:
Proximity to work – Shorter commutes mean more time with your family.
School districts – Many U.S. families choose neighborhoods based on school quality.
Public transport and amenities – Parks, libraries, and shops can make life easier and more enjoyable.
All the factors we've mentioned above really impact your quality of life in the U.S., so you need to research each factor carefully. In fact, most Americans choose where they live based on these very same factors. If possible, research housing before arrival and ask your sponsoring employer or local Nigerian communities for recommendations.
Understanding the School System
The U.S. school year runs from August or September to May or June. Public schools are free for residents, while private schools and international schools require tuition.
Key points for Nigerian parents:
Children are placed in grades based on age, not just academic ability.
Schools offer extracurricular activities such as sports, music, and clubs, which are great for helping children make friends and adapt.
If English is a second language for your child, schools often provide English as a Second Language (ESL) support.
Don't miss out on this opportunity to lay the foundation for your child's success going forward in the U.S. as they can really make the most of their time from the beginning. Making the correct decision now prevents you from switching schools later and it saves your children the pain of switching schools again and trying to make new friends.
Healthcare and Family Wellness
Healthcare in the U.S. works differently than in Nigeria. Most families get medical insurance through their employer or purchase it privately.
Tips for Nigerian families:
Schedule a family health check soon after arrival.
Identify a primary care physician for regular medical needs.
Learn where the nearest urgent care clinic and hospital are located.
Choose wisely because medical insurance is your only safety net in a complicated and expensive healthcare system. You don't want to go to the U.S. simply to get bankrupted by high healthcare costs and with the right insurance, you might avoid this fate.
Building Your Community
Finding familiar faces and cultural connections can make the transition smoother. Many cities have Nigerian associations, churches, and cultural groups that welcome newcomers.
Benefits of connecting with a community:
Support with navigating local systems.
Friendship for both adults and children.
Opportunities to celebrate Nigerian holidays and traditions in your new home.
Adjusting to Daily Life
The pace of life in America may feel different from Nigeria. Some adjustments you may notice:
Work-life balance – Many jobs follow strict start and end times.
Family schedules – Activities like school events, sports practice, and community gatherings are often planned weeks in advance.
Household chores – Services like domestic help are less common and more expensive, so families often share daily responsibilities.
Staying Connected to Your Roots
While your family builds a life in the U.S., staying connected to Nigerian culture is important. This might mean cooking Nigerian dishes at home, speaking local languages, or sharing cultural traditions with American friends.
It’s a way of keeping your identity strong while embracing the opportunities your new home offers.
Final Thoughts
Family life in America on an EB-3 visa is a journey of learning and growth. The first months will be full of new experiences, some challenging, many rewarding. By finding the right home, understanding local systems, and connecting with a supportive community, you can help your family not just adjust, but truly thrive.
Learn more about applying for the EB-3 visa with us here.
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